From something that popped up, attributed to "Mallory Ortberg" on Twitter:
"every single party where women listen interestedly to men is an extended piece of performance art, and men have NO IDEA"
In my universe, quite the opposite is observably true.
Glass houses.
It's not that one or the other DOESN'T happen but ...
Misogyny vs. Misandry: One Has Historically Defined the Structural, One Has Not
But ironically, the overshoot the other way is ignored and soon the question of which Defines the Structural will clearly have reversed. But that MUST not be given notice.